Porn For Women - Wondrous Variety

On a webmaster board today somebody asked what different types of porn women like to see. They came up with CFNM (clothed female, naked male) and the standard "porn for women" which tends to mean romantic couples erotica but weren't sure what else.

I said you can't really say "what women want" because every chick is different and will like different things.

I know of women who love the seriously hardcore stuff and are perfectly happy with the kind of gonzo porn you see on mainstream men's sites.

At the same time I've spent seven years offering porn with a bit of humanity and romance involved - kissing, intimacy, cunnilingus and a good looking guy can make a big difference to how a woman sees and enjoys a hardcore scene.

There are chicks who love perving on naked men and others who are left cold by penises. There are those who get hot seeing a man masturbate.

Lots of women enjoy watching gay porn because the guys are usually really good looking and buff and it's a turn on to see two men fucking and being intimate. Ditto with lesbian porn - lots of women have lesbian fantasies - although they're often frustrated with the porny girl-girl stuff that's so fake. You know what I'm talking about - the big hair, the long nails, all silly moans and no orgasms!

I think erotic fiction appeals to women because they're brought up with romance novels so there's a natural progression there. It's also good because it offers so much scope for the erotic imagination. Sex in your mind is almost always hotter than the real thing.

And amateur porn is also appealing because the women are real (there's much less silicon) and the people involved might actually like each other or enjoy what they're doing.

And then there's all those women into the kinky stuff, erotic power play, spanking, BDSM and the like. Women who get off on anal or even rough sex.

Porn for women is often thought of as a single entity and it really isn't. For me it's about knowing that a woman is getting off on it and acknowledging that.

At For The Girls we try to cater to various tastes and have a variety of content on the site beyond the stereotypical idea of women's porn. I think it's why we have so many happy members.