Saturday, February 08, 2003



A fellow female webmaster has created a women's ezine, and boasted on a message board that it was free of blowjob photos.
A male webmaster challenged her about it, asked if she was implying that women don't like giving blowjobs.

We all jumped in to clarify. Sure, many women LIKE giving blowjobs... but it doesn't follow that we want to SEE it in our porn.

I market both of my cunnilingus sites as being blowjob free. We're fulfilling women's fantasies, and I think a lot of that is the idea of being completely "serviced" as it were - he looks after you without a thought for himself.

I don't doubt that many women enjoy giving blowjobs, but the way they constantly appear in porn doesn't reflect that experience. Blowjob photos are usually just pics of the woman with a dick in her mouth, often looking at the camera, and EVERY time I see those, I just think they look silly. Where are the blowjob shots where we can see the look of ecstasy on the man's face, where he is looking at her with tenderness instead of "suck it, bitch"? THAT is why I'm not big on blowjob pics.

This is the same reasoning that explains why there's such a dearth of cunnilingus photos available. Men don't want to see it, even though I'm sure there's heaps of guys that love doing it. In mainstream porn, cunnilingus gets a passing mention, if at all, but the blowjob gets all the attention.

Again, the problem here is that this sort of porn is marketed and expected to be EVERYONE's porn, including women. What's wrong with a different viewpoint, a bit of variety?

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