There's a news article in the Sydney Morning Herald today saying date rapists are using a new drug which wipes out memory from before the drug was taken.
I think stupid "reality sites" like that Hypnotrick one help to normalise the idea that drugging women for sex is OK. Not just OK, but sexy too.
Fact is, men who think that having sex with a drunk or drugged woman are sexy are absolute fucking losers.

Anyway... onto something else.
I watched a porn movie called Red Vibe Diaries yesterday. It really was one of the best porn films I've seen, mainly because it had a good storyline, decent acting, quality camera work and interesting, real dialogue. As far as pornos for men go, this was the best women's erotica video I've ever seen!

Only problem was that most of the sex was standard porno sex - rapid hard penetration and a lot of grunting. Most of the time the poor old clit never got a look in. Oh, and the lead actress Stacy Valentine had enormous fake boobs, which were very distracting.
I want to see more movies with good sex in them. And by good sex I mean:

- Foreplay, and really passionate and erotic kissing, not "tongue jousting".
- Cunnilingus, Cunnilingus, Cunnilingus!
- A lot of clit stimulation. Because I don't find it believable that these women are having a good time if the poor little thing is so constantly neglected. And REAL clit stimulation too, not rubbing it like you're removing a nasty stain, and not smacking it.
- Real tits!
- Male porn stars who know how to smile, and who know how to depict pleasure as more than grunting and saying "oh yeah, give it to me baby".
- Variety when it comes to intercourse... start slow, get faster, slow again, tease...
- Eye contact - close sex where they are looking into each other's eyes
- And yes, some tender moments afterwards.

Give me a porn film like this, and I'm in heaven.

As it is, I enjoyed Red Vibe Diaries, even though I was making sarcastic comments half the time.

I think this is how a lot of women feel about porn videos. They want to watch something that will turn them on, and often your crotch will happily respond. But your brain is constantly thinking: "God, this is stupid, no-one has sex like that, no-one talks like that...."

I think many women want a porn video that lets them get immersed in the erotica and sensuality of it all, one that is so good you can switch off the critical little voice that says watching porn is just silly.

I suspect the only way to get this perfect porno is to write it myself.